Please RSVP by Friday, April 25. You can respond by filling out the card included in your invitation and mailing it back to us or online using the link on our RSVP page. Be sure to indicate each guest’s meal selection. Thank you!
When and how should I confirm my attendance?
What should I wear?
Our wedding reception is a black-tie event. We kindly request that gentlemen wear tuxedos and ladies wear floor-length gowns.
Guests attending only the Mass are not expected to follow the black-tie dress code.
If you have a plus one, it will be indicated on your formal invitation. Due to space limitations at the venue, we are only able to extend invitations to the guests listed by name on your invitation.
May I bring a guest?
May I bring my children?
Please check your invitation envelope and RSVP card for details regarding your guest count! If your little ones are invited to the reception, this will be indicated on your formal invitation.
Yes! For us, celebrating the Mass is a sacred way to begin our marriage. Through the Eucharist, we open our hearts to receive God’s grace, entrusting our union to His divine will. The sacrament of Matrimony reflects the love Christ has for His Church, which we seek to mirror in our own lives. The liturgy of the Mass will include prayers, Scripture readings, the exchange of vows, and Communion. We are honored to share this tradition with you and invite you to participate by following the instructions in our program. Thank you for joining us in this celebration of love and faith. (And for our fellow Catholics: our readings are from the Sunday Mass, so you’ll fulfill your Sunday obligation by attending our wedding!)
Will the ceremony be a full Mass?
The Mass will last around 1 hour, 15 minutes.
What time will dinner be served?
Dinner will be served around 9 pm. Hors d’oeuvres will be provided during cocktail hour, starting at 8 pm. We recommend having a snack before the wedding!
Can I attend the Mass without attending the reception?
Absolutely! We understand it will be a late evening and you might prefer to skip the reception. If this is the case, kindly indicate your attendance in the RSVP by declining the reception invitation. We look forward to celebrating with you at the ceremony!
We are pleased to provide transportation for guests staying at the St. Regis for all wedding weekend events.
If you prefer to drive:
Self-parking is available at the Cathedral and the Junior League.
For further details, including the shuttle schedule, please visit our Travel page.